Women in security: personal stories
How did you get in to security?
My interest in getting
in to human rights work was
because of the work
going on in East-Timor.
I was out on a women
and peace-building conference.
It’s a country that does
need a lot of attention.
It was a major driver for me
to enter this area of work.
I wanted to be in the armed forces
because I’d seen way too much
television and I just really...
I had the Xena Warrior Princess
and G.I. Jane
and maybe even,
I think, Tomb Raider.
But this... I’m talking
about when I was quite young.
I wanted to be a fighter pilot,
I wanted to be a helicopter pilot...
What deterred me, was simply
the fact that I have very bad eyesight.
Is more focus needed
on women in security?
I remember very well
one female leader
playing her cell phone for me
where she had recorded threats,
death threats
from the Taliban towards her
because she was
standing up for her rights.
And this was
an everlasting impression for me,
telling me that we need to support
these kinds
of activities and these people.
I had an experience
one and a half years ago.
I was already working
for UN women, I was engaged in a...
I was at a reception, there was
a major development forum.
And I started to talk to somebody
from the Ministry of Planning
of a conflict... of a country in conflict.
A high-level representative,
we are engaged in a good discussion
and I ask him about
what he thinks about the issue
and the challenge
of sexual violence against women
and how to address the issue.
He looked at me and he said:
Well, I mean, to be honest,
what can men do?
Once they haven’t seen
a woman for a long time,
they have a dire need and can’t
do differently than to violate her.
I think if we get this kind of answer
and this is the kind of ways
to deal with the issue,
we still have a long way to go.
Have you been
the victim of stereotyping?
I do still come across a lot
of stereotypical behaviour.
So, it is often assumed
that when you get off a plane
as part of a delegation that
you’re the note-taker or the secretary,
when in fact you’re
one of the senior people on the team.
And that’s the stereotypical
behaviour I’m talking about,
but it has a high giggle factor
because it doesn’t bother me.
What is the value
of international women’s day?
There’s a lot of value
in connecting women.
Actionaid really believes in solidarity
and women’s day is
a representation of solidarity.
Women across the world
talk about the progress
we made on gender based violence,
on unpaid care work,
on women smallholder farmers,
on women’s access to health care.
It puts a range of issues on the table
for women to connect about globally.